What to Eat During Confinement: A Malaysian Food Guide from Eggs to Durian

Medically reviewed by Dr Fatimah Mustafah, Consultant O&G · credentialsWritten by the Roseville Care Lady TeamPublished 29 Oct 20268 min read

Quick answer

Almost any nutritious food. Malaysia’s Ministry of Health (KKM) says there is no special confinement diet. Fill a quarter of your plate with grains, a quarter with protein such as fish or eggs, and half with vegetables and fruit. Drink 6 to 8 glasses of water daily; if breastfeeding, limit caffeine.

Medically reviewed by

Dr Fatimah Mustafah

Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist

Written by

Roseville Care Lady Team

Carers for mothers and babies at Roseville Confinement Villa, Bangi Gateway

Updated 29 October 2026 15 references

Disclosure: Dr Fatimah is one of Roseville’s owners.

1-minute summary

What to eat during confinement: 6 key points

  1. 1No special confinement diet (Malaysia’s Ministry of Health): eat varied, balanced meals.
  2. 2Healthy plate: a quarter grains, a quarter protein, half vegetables and fruit.
  3. 3Eggs, fish, chicken and meat give protein and iron; avoid them only if allergic.
  4. 4Drink 6 to 8 glasses of water daily; fibre and fluids help prevent constipation.
  5. 5Breastfeeding: caffeine up to 200 mg a day; limit high-mercury fish.
  6. 6Durian, nasi lemak, soy sauce: in moderation; diabetes or high blood pressure? Ask your doctor.
Roseville Confinement Villa & Spa, Bangi Gateway

What to eat during confinement: what Malaysia’s Ministry of Health says

Almost any nutritious food. The MyHEALTH portal of Malaysia’s Ministry of Health (KKM) says there is no special confinement diet; family customs are fine as long as meals stay balanced.

If you skip a food, swap it for another from the same group, such as a different fish. Build each main meal on the Malaysian Healthy Plate (Malaysian Dietary Guidelines 2020, KKM):

  • A quarter: rice, bihun, wholemeal bread, sweet potato or corn, ideally whole grains.
  • A quarter: fish, chicken, meat, eggs, dhal, tempeh or dairy.
  • Half: vegetables and fruit.
  • Drinks: plain water or unsweetened drinks; go easy on soy sauce and gravies high in salt, sugar and fat.

Eggs, fish, chicken and meat: are they really “bisa”?

Tradition: some fish, chicken, eggs and pineapple are called “bisa” (harmful) and said to slow wound repair (KKM). A KKM study in Kelantan (2017) found kembung, tenggiri and bawal avoided as “itchy”, and chicken and meat delayed about two weeks.

Evidence: KKM calls these foods good sources of protein, vitamins and minerals; protein matters for repairing birth wounds, and iron helps replace blood lost at birth. The NHS lists eggs, fish and lean meat as protein foods when breastfeeding.

A small 2026 Klang Valley study found 61.5% of first-time mothers avoided seafood and 53.8% avoided eggs; its authors note that guidelines do not advise avoiding eggs or fish while breastfeeding to prevent allergies in babies.

Safe way: at least two portions of fish a week, but no more than two of oily fish such as sardines, and no more than one of shark, swordfish or marlin (NHS).

“Cooling” foods: can you eat cucumber, banana, apple and corn?

Tradition: a new mother should stay “warm”, so ginger and black pepper are favoured and “cooling” cucumber and watermelon avoided (KKM, 2017). Lists vary between families, and some allow apples and certain bananas.

Evidence: KKM says no scientific study shows any benefit in avoiding these foods. Vegetables and fruit give vitamins, minerals and fibre, which the NHS says helps with constipation after birth.

So cucumber, bananas and apples are fine; the NHS lists apples among fruits for softer stools. Corn and wholemeal bread are fibre-rich whole grains (KKM, NHS). Yoghurt and milk provide calcium and protein; if your family worries they are cold, serve them at room temperature.

If your family still objects, choose sawi, kucai, ulam, oranges or papaya (KKM). For cold water and ice, see confinement rules and myths.

Durian, nasi lemak, soy sauce and ice cream: tradition vs evidence

A summary for mothers without complications; with diabetes, high blood pressure or allergies, follow your doctor.

FoodTraditionEvidenceSafe way
Eggs“Bisa”; said to slow wound repairProtein (KKM, NHS)Fine unless allergic
Kembung, tenggiri, bawal“Itchy”Protein (KKM)If avoided, choose another fish
Chicken, meatWait two weeksProtein, iron (KKM)Choose lean meat (NHS)
Cucumber, watermelon, banana“Cooling”No proven benefit in avoiding (KKM)Fine; fibre helps with constipation
Durian“Heaty”No strong evidence of harmOne serving: 5 ulas, 40 g (KKM)
Nasi lemakAvoid santan, oily dishesKKM: eat less santan-based foodNow and then, with vegetables
Soy sauce (kicap)Darkens scarsNo strong evidence; salty (KKM)A little; salt up to 6 g a day (NHS)
Instant noodlesProcessed foodKKM: limit instant noodlesNow and then, not daily
Ice cream“Cooling”KKM: less full-cream dairy, including ice creamSmall portions
Coffee, tea, chocolateTea, coffee often avoidedCaffeine up to 200 mg a day if breastfeeding (NHS)Count all caffeine sources

Four confinement meals a day in every package

Every Roseville package in Bangi includes four confinement meals a day. Tell us about allergies and family food customs when you book.

Coffee, tea, chocolate and water: how much while breastfeeding?

Caffeine passes into breast milk and, in large amounts, may make your baby restless. The NHS and ACOG advise up to 200 mg a day while breastfeeding, and ACOG suggests less in the first days, as newborns are more sensitive. NHS estimates:

  • One mug of coffee: about 90 mg
  • One mug of tea: about 55 mg
  • A 50 g bar of plain dark chocolate: under 25 mg

So yes, a postpartum mother can have coffee and chocolate within this limit. KKM recommends 6 to 8 glasses of water a day, as a mother makes about 800 ml of milk daily; drink more if your urine is dark yellow (ACOG).

Herbs and jamu can pass into breast milk, so take care, especially with a premature baby or one under two months (KKM). Take supplements only on a doctor’s or dietitian’s advice (KKM), and avoid alcohol while breastfeeding (NHS).

A sample day of meals, and what to ask a confinement centre

This general example follows the Malaysian Healthy Plate; it is not Roseville’s menu.

  • Breakfast: oats or wholemeal bread, an egg, milk.
  • Lunch: rice, steamed ginger fish, sawi, papaya.
  • Afternoon: plain yoghurt with fruit, or nuts if not allergic.
  • Dinner: rice, black pepper chicken soup, vegetables, an orange.

Choosing a confinement centre? Before paying a deposit, ask how many meals are served, whether allergies and customs are followed, whether food handlers have typhoid vaccination, and where ingredients come from.

At Roseville Confinement Villa & Spa, Bangi Gateway, every package includes four confinement meals a day, planned for mothers in confinement. Trained food handlers vaccinated against typhoid (TY2) run the kitchen, and extra meals can be added for a fee. Discuss the menu during a free villa visit.

Tip from the Roseville team

Before your due date, list food allergies, family customs to keep and your doctor’s diet advice, and share it with whoever cooks. Little help at home? Read confinement on your own.

C-section, diabetes or a baby with allergies: when to see a doctor

No special diet is needed after a C-section: NICE says mothers who are well without complications can eat and drink as normal, and the NHS says you can eat once hungry or thirsty. See confinement after a C-section.

With diabetes (including in pregnancy), high blood pressure or a food allergy, follow your doctor’s or dietitian’s advice; NICE recommends discussing diet at postnatal check-ups. Very rarely, a breastfeeding mother must cut out dairy for a baby with severe cow’s milk allergy (NHS); never drop a food group without medical advice.

See a doctor urgently if

  • Lips, mouth, tongue or throat suddenly swell, or breathing becomes hard after eating (NHS): call 999.
  • Your baby gets a rash, swelling, wheezing, vomiting or diarrhoea after feeds.
  • Your baby sleeps unusually, refuses feeds or looks yellow after you take herbs or jamu.
  • Constipation persists despite more fibre and fluids, or there is blood in your stool.

Roseville is a confinement care centre, not a clinic, and a jaundiced baby needs a doctor. We can help arrange an appointment at the clinic or hospital of your choice.

See the villa, talk about the menu

Book a free villa visit in Bangi Gateway and bring your list of allergies and family food customs.

Frequently asked questions

How long should confinement food restrictions last?

There is no medical period. By custom, Malay mothers observe 40 to 44 days, and Chinese and Indian families 30 days (KKM); balanced eating continues while you breastfeed. Read how long confinement lasts or plan your dates with the free Confinement Plan.

Can a postpartum mother drink cold water?

Avoiding cold water is a tradition; confinement rules and myths explains its origins and how to follow it safely. Nutritionally, what matters is drinking enough: KKM recommends 6 to 8 glasses a day. Warm or room-temperature water is a fair middle ground.

Do breastfeeding mothers need to eat more?

Yes, a little. ACOG (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists) estimates 450 to 500 extra calories a day to make breast milk. Add snacks such as fruit, yoghurt, nuts or wholemeal bread, and keep a drink beside you when breastfeeding (NHS). Avoid customs so strict that they cut how much you eat or drink (KKM).

Can you eat durian during confinement?

Yes, in moderation. The belief that durian is “heaty” and harmful in confinement is a tradition without strong evidence. The Malaysian Dietary Guidelines 2020 count 5 ulas of durian (40 g) as one fruit serving. With diabetes, including in pregnancy, ask your doctor how much sweet fruit suits you.

Can a confinement centre follow my family’s food customs?

Ask before booking, as policies differ. At Roseville, tell us about allergies and family food customs when you book, and discuss the menu during a free villa visit. If your doctor gave diet advice, for example for diabetes, bring a copy to talk through with our team.

References

  1. Pemakanan Semasa Berpantang (Nutrition during confinement), MyHEALTH portal, Ministry of Health Malaysia (KKM), last reviewed 2015 (archived copy; the original portal was inaccessible on 29 Oct 2026)
  2. Malaysian Dietary Guidelines 2020, National Coordinating Committee on Food and Nutrition, KKM, 2020
  3. Amalan Perubatan Tradisional Melayu bagi Penjagaan Ibu-ibu Selepas Bersalin di Negeri Kelantan (Traditional Malay postnatal care practices in Kelantan), Traditional and Complementary Medicine Division, KKM, 2017
  4. Breastfeeding and diet, NHS, 2026
  5. Breastfeeding Your Baby (FAQ029), American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), 2023, reviewed 2025
  6. Constipation, NHS, 2023
  7. 8 tips for healthy eating, NHS, 2022
  8. Breastfeeding and drinking alcohol, NHS, 2026
  9. Caesarean birth (NG192): Recommendations, National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE), 2021, updated 2025
  10. Caesarean section: Recovery, NHS, 2023
  11. Postnatal care (NG194): Recommendations, NICE, 2021, updated 2026
  12. Milk allergy, Cambridge University Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust, 2024
  13. Food allergy, NHS, 2026
  14. Breast Milk Vitamin C Concentrations and Their Association With Confinement Dietary Practices in the Early Postpartum Period (Mohd Shukri NH et al.), Cureus, 2026
  15. Malaysia Emergency Response Services (MERS) 999, Official Portal of the Malaysian Government (MyGOV), updated 2025

This article is general information and does not replace advice from your doctor or dietitian. The sample meals in this article are general examples, not Roseville’s menu. Roseville is a confinement care centre and women’s spa, not a clinic or hospital. For any health concern for you or your baby, please see a doctor or registered health facility.

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